Friday, June 18, 2010

Sometimes It's Hard Not To Get Mad

Today I heard via the Grapevine, that my exHusband threw a hissy fit when he learned I was moving. I dunno....it seems to me throwing a fit would indicate he thinks I still care about what he does or does not do. I don't.

What I do care about is protecting myself and my reputation. I could not help but take offense when informed of some of his more disparaging comments, comments made to my co-workers and colleagues. It is an assault upon my character - against which I have no defense.  ANY response, short of none, looks like a defense, which automatically puts one in the less-than position.  I know my own true 'defense' is time.  Time is on my side because the truth ALWAYS comes out. 

So, from a peace point of view, all I can do is persevere. I will not stoop to his level when it comes to opening his mouth.

I will continue to strive to live my life with grace and dignity.

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